Saturday, 14 May 2016

THOUGHTS: No Good in Goodbye

After several months of zero entry here in my weblog, this article is such a strange thing to write, as I need to recall every bits and pieces of my wonderful experience for almost 2 years in SOQJV.
Unknowingly, My last Selfie, Labour Day 2016 
First Photo with Procurement Team, June 2014
My SOQJV's First Working Station, June 2014
For those of you who didn’t know, well, we’ve been fired from our project (darn!) on 4th May, 2016, exactly 10 days from today. The client decided to cancel the contract and (re)award to a (more) capable hands of another company. As heartbreaking as this sounds, this is the reality that I need to accept. Well, it already happened anyway. And this is the first time I experience a huge separation. On that same evening, I know, familiar faces and places which I’d grown so accustomed for 2 years would soon be changing.
Birthday, November 2014
Environmental Day, November 2014
Pinoy Mafia Year End Celebration, Crystal Palace December 2014
Looking back and reflect on my journey on this project wasn’t that easy, especially if they were shared with different kinds of people. From the day I started as Procurement Engineer, attending birthday celebrations, Christmas Parties, pigging out everywhere, outings and so on. One regular day spent with one person can create an enormous effect, imagine a 730 days with hundreds of people?! It’s going to be as vast as the universe. Because regardless of how long someone has been a part of our lives, whether it’s 5minutes, 5weeks, 5months, their impact will always remain with us. Time doesn’t matter, but character does, and how you build memoirs with them.
Family Day, Grand Hyatt Doha February 2015
Ladies just wanna have Fun, Krossroads, Irish Harp, Trader Vics, April/May 2015
Overnight Outing, Fuwairit Beach September 2015
Believe me, I am not good in saying goodbye. I got the worst kind of separation angst, as I always cling to every memory I create with a person, that’s why “No Good in Goodbye” by The Script is one of my most loved songs, ever. The anxiety of that reality had started to creep into my psyche a week ago, and I still can’t get over it until now. One thought continued to occupy my mind.

Mr. James Ji's Farewell Party, October 2015
Birthday, November 2015 (Last Birthday with SOQJV, waahhh!)
Birthday, November 2015 (Last Birthday with SOQJV, waahhh!)
Pinoy Mafia Year End Celebration, Grand Qatar Palace December 2015
Procurement Team with 3 great Managers
Ali Suzen, Sutis Restaurant 2014
Jimmy Jung ChiZen Oryx Rotana 2015
Daniel Lejarraga Manhattan Fish Market 2016
Yet, after going through seven thousand and one different circumstances in my dome, I realized that the only way I could do is to associate the word “Goodbye” into “patience”. We might not see each other for a day, a week, maybe a month (pero wag nman sana hahah!) But I will always look forward, to see you (all) again…
The Moment of Truth, SOQJV Al Diwan Office 4th May 2016
Last Glance, 4th May 2016
For now, I must rely on Walt Disney’s quote which gives me additional comfort when I’m feeling nostalgic and forlorn.

"Goodbye may see forever, farewell is like the end.
But in my heart is the memory, and there you will always be..."

Pinoy Mafia's Last Groufie (and we're almost complete), April 2016


Photo Credits to Owners

Friday, 1 April 2016

THOUGHTS: Celebrate Life in Qatar (A Demi-Decade Existence)

FIRST QATAR PHOTO: April 2011, SOJV Matar Qadeem Accommodation
On reflection on my demi-decade in Qatar, my husband and I both agree that we’ve learnt a lot from our expat escapade.  We have enhanced our skills in interior design (the ability to furnish a new house in a day, mostly second-hand, thanks to Souq Haraj and Expats weblogs and websites), extra-advance planning (buying Christmas presents in March), and becoming a fervent fan of sales, promotions and special offers.

My husband came here in Qatar in 2010 and we worked together at Hamad International Airport Project. at first, It was difficult since I was used to live my life alone. This isn’t actually the first time I worked abroad. Been to Vietnam in 2007 and UAE from 2008-2011, so practically, I know how to be independent. But eventually, of course we learned to do things together.

DREAM HOUSE: Casa WRTeves Living Room, September 2015
Got a veerry nice job, a very good offer and benefits, a very nice career experience. Because of that, we had our joint savings, got our dream church wedding and start our lives together. 2 years after the wedding, we started planning our dream home. And just last year, It was a big success! My family in Cabanatuan NE moved in and we just had a house warming.

UAE: Eid Holiday 2015 and 3rd Wedding Anniversary Celebration
And since we already completed our dream home, it’s time for some relaxation. Last Eid Holiday, we went to UAE and let my husband experienced the vast beauty of Dubai and Abu Dhabi. I became his personal (and sweetest hahah!) tour guide.
This year, we already started a small business, called ARTistique HUE (PRINTerest Advertising). That’s actually what I really want, arts arts arts! I am over quota working as Civil Engineer lol! And of course this business will be managed (as in from marketing to designs to financial aspects, siya lahat! :) ) by my younger sistah, she’s good at it, believe me J we’re also planning to celebrate our 4th wedding anniversary in – Maldives! Cross Fingers!! We hope we can find a very good deal.

ANNIV BREAKFAST CELEBRATION: The Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf, Al Mana Towers
Life in Qatar is a lot different compare to what I had in Vietnam and UAE. More difficult and strict yet simpler and happier. I enjoy the place, the people, including my husband of course, the simplicity of life, the value of money, the things happening around me. Everything. Maybe, we will go to other countries just to unwind and relax. But definitely, we will retire from Qatar, go home and stay together in my hometown… +_+

Wednesday, 27 January 2016

EVENT: Basketball Birthday Bash!

I humbly ask everyone to please be there between 6:00 - 6:30.
Baka dumating ng maaga ung birthday celebrant wala pa yung magsusurprise sa kanya hehehe…

Players will be ready on their jersey with white shirt underneath
(kung may red jersey, better, kung wala, keri lng any color, pants will be fine,
baka hindi kayo papasukin sa hotel if you’re wearing shorts)
Cheerleaders will be on their best RED, BLACK and WHITE get up. 

Valet Parking is available.


LEGAL: Philippine Election 2016, Who's Next?

During my pen-and-paper days, I was already involved with politics. My grandpop used to be a campaign manager and adviser of our municipal mayor for a couple of years. During the election, we used to distribute flyers, sample ballots and stickers, we always go to meeting de avance during the campaign period. That was 1992 election, when Ex-Pres Fidel V. Ramos won the election, or so it says on the result. But one popular personality, and I pity you if you do not know her, assumed that she won the 1992 Presidential election. You know now who she is? Yes. She is Sen. Miriam Defensor Santiago.

I (partially) know how politics works. I was a representative, a college Auditor and University Treasurer during my college days. It wasn’t that easy to win the hearts of your co-students. They check your high school, your organizations, your achievements and everything about you before you convince them that you are deserving to be part of the student body. Because you will know their standards, and their willingness to involve themselves in selecting a good Student Officers that will govern them over the entire school year.

Five months from now, and another set of politicians from different corners of the Philippines will govern the country. The world is watching the Philippines closely and with great  importance. And while everyone is busy to register, I am busy looking for the achievements of our Presidential candidates. People should vote WISELY and RESPONSIBLY. Do not depend on other’s vote or decisions. And so, I found this web ( mentioning 10 qualities to look for in a Presidential candidate. Come take a look, ponder and decide. There actually 8 (un)official presidential candidates, although, let’s take a look on these 5 personalities.

10 Qualities to Look for in a Presidential Candidate

Integrity/ Honesty – Does your chosen candidate have a track record of being an honest person? Dishonest leaders had been voted into office before with great costs to the citizenry. Money stolen by a mendacious official is money earmarked for public infrastructures and services the citizens will never receive. A corrupt pilferer of government coffers should not receive any vote.

Ability to delegate – Has your pick demonstrated an executive ability to hire, supervise and monitor people? The president has the duty to pick and appoint upstanding people to the Executive Office of the President and the Cabinet. The government is a complex system with a lot of duties and responsibilities to its citizens that is dispensed through its various offices and departments. The President needs the ability to delegate, as he cannot do all the tasks needed to run a country by himself.

Confidence/Security– Does he/she exudes confidence and appears secure? A confident and secure leader has no problem believing and engaging others. He/she does not have the need for arrogance or feeling of superiority in order to convey his presence. As they say in the Southern US, “ If you have to tell someone you are a lady, chances are you’re not.” It is je ne sais quoi and someone with confidence and security radiates with it.

Communication Skills – Does he/she communicate his/her intentions effectively with people from all walks of life? Communication is done not only by speaking but also by listening. A good leader speaks in clear and concise manner and listens attentively. A good president will need communication skills to keep the citizens up-to date with the government’s performance, successes and failures as well as to find out what his constituents want or need from the government.

Sense of Humor / Positive Attitude – Does he/she smile a lot and not take himself/herself seriously? Is he/she able to diffuse a difficult situation by looking at its lighter side? A good-natured leader will often make better decisions, as he/she is not afraid to show his/her humanity in public.

Commitment/ Passion – Has he/she shown commitment and passion in her past jobs? Committed and passionate people make highly effective leaders, as they are tenacious and persistent. They will see to it that a goal is met and a vision is realized. Their focus and perseverance often pays off so betting on a committed and passionate candidate will likely yield positive results.

Ability to Inspire – Does he/she has achievements that motivate others to emulate? Is he/she sincere and forthright? The ability to inspire is an important quality, as people look up at the president as a role model. “Do what I say but don’t do what I do” will breed societal resistance and sanctimony.

Competence – Does he/she has the necessary skills, knowledge and abilities to govern a morally and fiscally insolvent country? A competent president does not need to be an expert in all theories and practices of public administration but he/she needs to be self-motivated and a fast learner.

Courage – Is he/she decisive and able to make tough calls when it’s needed? A courageous person is not fearless. He/she just has the ability to face fear, danger, pain, uncertainty, intimidation and other difficulties without warping or caving in. Calm self-assurance raises the level of confidence in one’s decisions.

Servant hood/Selflessness – Does he/she put people first as his/her priority? Does he/she eschew personal power and wealth building on the back of the masses? The president is still a public servant who is tasked to look after the well-being of the populace. He/she works for the citizenry and not the other way around.

Wednesday, 18 November 2015

EVENT: Join Us and Unmask the Mystery

Sweet ‘n Sassy Note

  1.   Party Fee: Attendees: 70.00QAR, Non-Attendees: 5.00QAR
  2. Due Date for Payment: 01st December 2015, please contact Miss Isay
  3. Masks will be available at the venue for your convenience. (You can also bring mask of your choice)
  4. Valet Parking is available.
  5. Please bring tipsy bottles and cans after the party. We might not have enough stocks at home. :D
  6. Attached Location Map: Grand Qatar Palace Hotel 

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