"Just be you. I've learned the hard way in the end, some people are just so full of hate that no matter what you say or do, the will always have something to say..."
Just wanna share this beautiful fact... :)
Yesterday afternoon, I discovered that I have tanaannn.... 2 haters. Yeah, I've earned 2 detractors last year. For sure there is, or maybe are reasons why they feel that way towards me, they don't even belong to my circle of friends (though I don't have plans to befriend them since they are full of negativity in their lives). The first seems like she hates the world, while the other one is not happy enough with her marriage life. And so, just as I realized now, these 2 things about them, are the exact opposite of what I am enjoying now. Though I came from a broken family, I was raised by my mom and her relatives in a very positive way of living, taught us to thank God in every blessing I receive, whether these are the things that we ask for, or thing that we deserve to have. And just a year ago, I married a very wonderful man, my 4G - God's Greatest Gorgeous Gift.
Maybe, these things are the reasons why they feel that way. But instead of feeling the same way and become "crying patola loser", these amazing people around me told me "the best way to deal with your haters is no to deal with them at all." So I made further research about haters, and here's what I've learned on How to deal with your fans (yes, they are you fans, looking up on you, but with bitterness, hehehe)
1. In order to understand the process of why haters hate, you must understand the definition of a hater. A hater is "A person whose jealousy of another person success or achievements makes them verbally nit-pick any flaws no matter how small or just make up flaws in order to somehow try and belittle the successful person."
2. Instead of getting mad at haters for hating, keep doing what you do that brings hate your way. Having haters is one way of knowing your constantly doing something right. It's always good to have your name in someone else's mouth, keeps you popular.